Jenniferand Ojani met when he was working as a waiter in Miami in 1997.

The two were immediately attracted to each other.

They got married the same year and divorced a year later.

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TheSelenaactress recentlyfiled for divorcefrom Ben Affleck after two years of marriage.

According to theNew York Post, Jennifer cited irreconcilable differences as the reason for their split.

But you might only pretend so much, he added.

“You Can Only Pretend So Much”: Jennifer Lopez’s First Husband Shares Details About Their Breakup

Because I knew inside we were not good.

I hated going on the red carpet.

You cant be real in a relationship if youre always being photographed, he allegedly told her.

“You Can Only Pretend So Much”: Jennifer Lopez’s First Husband Shares Details About Their Breakup

The pair began dating in 2002 after meeting on the set ofGigli.

And then I sort of realized its not a fair thing to ask.

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In 2022, Ojanitold the outletthat he was not convinced that Bennifer 2.0 would last.

“You Can Only Pretend So Much”: Jennifer Lopez’s First Husband Shares Details About Their Breakup

Ben is husband number four.

He also suggested thatJenniferstay single for a while and take 12 months off.

If she meets someone new, maybe keep it private and not get married again.

“You Can Only Pretend So Much”: Jennifer Lopez’s First Husband Shares Details About Their Breakup

I would just say to Jen: you oughta be yourself so you could find yourself.

I knew inside we were not good.

TheOn the Floorsinger was recently spotted having a friendly lunch with Ben.

“You Can Only Pretend So Much”: Jennifer Lopez’s First Husband Shares Details About Their Breakup

“You Can Only Pretend So Much”: Jennifer Lopez’s First Husband Shares Details About Their Breakup

“You Can Only Pretend So Much”: Jennifer Lopez’s First Husband Shares Details About Their Breakup

“You Can Only Pretend So Much”: Jennifer Lopez’s First Husband Shares Details About Their Breakup

“You Can Only Pretend So Much”: Jennifer Lopez’s First Husband Shares Details About Their Breakup

“You Can Only Pretend So Much”: Jennifer Lopez’s First Husband Shares Details About Their Breakup

“You Can Only Pretend So Much”: Jennifer Lopez’s First Husband Shares Details About Their Breakup

“You Can Only Pretend So Much”: Jennifer Lopez’s First Husband Shares Details About Their Breakup

“You Can Only Pretend So Much”: Jennifer Lopez’s First Husband Shares Details About Their Breakup

“You Can Only Pretend So Much”: Jennifer Lopez’s First Husband Shares Details About Their Breakup

“You Can Only Pretend So Much”: Jennifer Lopez’s First Husband Shares Details About Their Breakup

“You Can Only Pretend So Much”: Jennifer Lopez’s First Husband Shares Details About Their Breakup

“You Can Only Pretend So Much”: Jennifer Lopez’s First Husband Shares Details About Their Breakup

“You Can Only Pretend So Much”: Jennifer Lopez’s First Husband Shares Details About Their Breakup

“You Can Only Pretend So Much”: Jennifer Lopez’s First Husband Shares Details About Their Breakup

“You Can Only Pretend So Much”: Jennifer Lopez’s First Husband Shares Details About Their Breakup

“You Can Only Pretend So Much”: Jennifer Lopez’s First Husband Shares Details About Their Breakup

“You Can Only Pretend So Much”: Jennifer Lopez’s First Husband Shares Details About Their Breakup

“You Can Only Pretend So Much”: Jennifer Lopez’s First Husband Shares Details About Their Breakup

“You Can Only Pretend So Much”: Jennifer Lopez’s First Husband Shares Details About Their Breakup

“You Can Only Pretend So Much”: Jennifer Lopez’s First Husband Shares Details About Their Breakup

“You Can Only Pretend So Much”: Jennifer Lopez’s First Husband Shares Details About Their Breakup