I felt like, as a mom, its my job to dump the path for my daughters.
And I have to make as much of an impact as I can for them.
I dont want them to grow up in a world like this, she toldPeople Magazine.
I did not understand there were women that were just happy to just live and be themselves.
The mom, who married her ex-husband in 2009, rejects the glorification of thetradwife lifestyleoften shown on TikTok.
I dont want my daughters to be in a marriage like this,' she explained.
Im so perfect and beautiful, and I do all these things amazingly.
Its also a little bit disingenuous.
I know what its like.
Youre not showing the full picture.
For her, being a tradwife came with the constant feeling that whatever she did would never be enough.
Its this stupid, stupid, stupid goalpost thats always moving.
Well, did you mill the flour?
Well, did you grow the wheat that you milled the flour?
They can keep pushing it back.
you might never reach perfection in the tradwife life.
You just keep going deeper and deeper down rabbit holes.
I feel like its just to keep you busy and keep your wheels spinning.
According to themother-of-four, most couples dont have access to that much money when they begin the tradwife lifestyle.
The culture is commonly based on faith and just trusting that the Lord would provide, she added.
Pretending your relations is working does not mean its actually working.
She then returned to bed for a few extra hours of sleep and woke up again to bake bread.
The baby would be getting up, so Id get him up and nurse him for the second time.
At night, her husband returned home from work, and they all had dinner together.
The kids went to sleep, and they followed soon after.
Just cooking meals, taking care of kids and tending to everybody elses needs.
That was the whole day.
That just wasnt a thing.
You dont have to be a wife.
They knew I had four kids, and the baby was just now old enough to be home.
I was like, Oh, I think were going to start talking about having our next baby.
And they were like, No, no.'
Feeling inspired by the encouragement from other women, Enitza took on two nursing jobs.
Now, shes a certified nurse and earns her own income by working as a graphic designer.
It started to make me feel younger, feel more regenerated.
