In some of these cases, they find out about acheatingpartner only thanks to people outside of therelationship.
And even then, some cant believe that their significant other could be capable of doing so.
Likethiswoman who, upon learning her husband cheated, thought it was all a lie.
Romantic relationships are built on love and trust between partners who assume they can trust each other.
That trust can lead to blind spots.
Another reason for overlooking infidelity signs is loss of connection in a relationship, says Capalbo.
Often, infidelity emerges as a symptom of an already fractured bond.
When partners have drifted into parallel lives, their awareness of each other diminishes significantly.
The betrayed partner might genuinely miss warning signs because theyve stopped closely observing their partners behaviors and patterns.
Metz also notes that infidelity signs can easily go unnoticed because the partner involved in it hides it well.
While some intentionally or unintentionally overlookcheatingsigns in their relationship, people outside of it can notice them first.
Whereas Metz recommends thinking about the evidence you have about the affairs legitimacy.
If you just have a feeling there might be infidelity, dont meddle in someone elses relationship.
They should also expect that delivering such news could bring a mix of emotions, says Metz.
Present the information gently, then step back to allow them space to process and decide for themselves.
Your role is to inform, not to direct their response.
In my experience working withcouples, many choose to rebuild after infidelity.
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