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Death is often an uncomfortable topic to think about, let alone discuss.
This can be painful for the grievingfamilywho are just looking for some support during a tough time.
A woman found herself in this situation after suddenly losing her mom.
It made her question their entire relationship.
She said that generally, people dont know what to do with grief and with grievers.
Death is a circumstance that cannot be fixed.
They dont know what to say or do so as not to upset the griever.
Different peoples personalities also weigh in on how they react to the griever.
If they are a reserved person to begin with, they may be reserved in this behavior, too.
If they areanxiousor insecure, they may fear doing or saying the wrong thing.
Thats why she told her son to convey her condolences instead.
Asurveyfound that almost 50% of grievers are able to cope better after spending time with family.
Its also probably why the OP was hoping for her mom-in-law to reach out and comfort her.
Or go and sit with them, in silence or with the TV on.
Bear witness to their grief quietly.
If they say that they are not having a good day and dont want company, honor that.
Death can bring out a weird side of people that you would have otherwise not seen.
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