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Being a part of thefamily, just like being atrue friend, revolves around kindness and mutual respect.
There needs to be a give-and-take dynamic.
Its a red flag if the relationship is always one-sided.
For example, when someone only ever turns to you when they need financial help.
The OPs sister had demanded that she use her inheritance to fund her lavish wedding.
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Moving on from the past is definitely possible.
At the same time, you have to have realistic expectations.
It takes two people to reconnect.
The other person might still hold a grudge against you.
Or they might see no reason to rekindle their old relationship after so much emotional turmoil in the past.
Even though its difficult, you have to respect the other persons wishes.
They might no longer want you back in their life.
Trying to convince them otherwise wont get you far.
Naturally, there shouldnt be any hidden agendas behind your attempts to restore the relationship.
Its not a good look if you only see other people as instruments for your own goals.
However, when it comes to real friendship, theres an element of reciprocity at work.
Both people get something nice out of their relationship.
More than one person benefits.
They also tend to ignore you when youre going through a tougher period.
But once things are right as rain again, theyre glad to pop back into your life.
True friends also do not pressure you to do things that are clearly against your best interests.
However, the advice has to be genuine.
Share iconYou can still have a wonderful wedding without relying on others for money.
Or you could ask to work more hours at your regular day job.
In terms of savings, you have to sit down and analyze your entire budget in detail.
For example, you might have a bunch of subscriptions that youre not currently using.
Or you might be spending slightly too much on dining out vs. eating in.
can net you a hefty sum in savings for your wedding budget in a years time.
Then there are the possible cuts you might make to the wedding itself.
The reality is that youll have to make at least some tradeoffs.
Inviting more guests vs. having more decorations.
Hiring the band you absolutely love for your first dance vs. having a massive ice sculpture.
Offering your guests lots of delish food vs. splurging more on drinks, etc.
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