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Parenting is a very hard job.
And so, she went to Reddit to ask who was the jerk in the situation.
But what to do when your effort gets on some peoples nerves?
It is based on the Chinese legend of Hua Mulan.
The plot takes place in imperial China.
Mulans struggle provided her a sense of self-identification.
However, the complexity of Mulans character is not so clear to everyone.
Some just see her as a representation of the Asian race, not much else.
One day the OP took her daughter on a playdate with one of her coworkers and her child.
When the subject of Disney princesses came up, the girl brought up how she was similar to Mulan.
Her mothers coworker gave her a funny look.
She already struggles with communicating her feelings enough.
In fact, some theories are circling the internet, which state that Mulan might be autistic-coded.
People online were of the same opinion.
She shouldnt go around telling people who they can and cannot identify with.
Mulan resonates with plenty of people no matter their skin color.
Folks online decided that resonating with Mulan is not a race-specific experience and the coworker should back off
