This isnt just about whats in the bank but also a whole interplay of knowledge and expectations.
What do our houses look like?
What occupies our free time?
What do we wear and drive and eat and buy?
How do we talk?
Where do we feel most comfortable?
These are all ways of falling into class brackets without even being aware that we are.
In these situations, according to her, phrases like we dont have buckets of money!
arent very helpful, primarily because the rift might not just be about estimates of capital.
Money came in fourth with 19%.
So, what to do?
The important thing, Gordon-Smith said, is to temper some of your resentment about your in-laws resentment.
Im not saying your feelings are misplacedthey could be totally apt.
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