Today we take it way simpler when naming kids, but this doesnt mean that naming dramas have disappeared.
As for the name, the OP has her ownhistory, and its actually a long one.
Meanwhile, her dad chose the girls middle name so our heroines name is Acacia Claire.
And their next children had quite common names.
However, Jane tried to rename the original poster too, suggesting that she be called simply Claire.
Frankly, I would name the kid after your mother after all this harassment.
Both first and middle name, one person supposed.
I think it’s crucial that you cut WAY back on contact with them, another one claimed.