As Haruki Murakami wisely says in one of his books, Dont let appearances fool you.

Hisfriendis the one who set up the two as she thought that they would make a cute couple.

They agreed to meet at a Mexican restaurant that the woman chose.

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Sounds pretty ridiculous, doesnt it?

It has beenobservedthat folks who treat them poorly, the majority of the time, have a judging personality.

He suggests, Waiters cannot answer back.

Couple at a restaurant table with wine glasses, woman talking, man listening attentively.

I think people who are rude to waiters are bullies.

Someone rude to a waiter is likely, sooner or later, to be rude to a spouse.

PsychologistTara Whitmorealso explains that people who are rude and condescending to waiters often lack empathy.

Text description discussing a restaurant date setup, questioning etiquette of leaving mid-dinner.

Surprisingly, such people can often be excessively polite and charming in other social situations.

This excessive politeness isnt genuine, though.

Its a manipulative tactic used to create a favorable impression among peers, she adds.

Text about a visit to a Mexican restaurant, mentioning enchiladas and table spacing due to COVID-19.

Check out the results:

Text describing a woman being rude to a waitress at a restaurant table.

Text explaining a woman’s rude behavior towards a waitress for no reason during a date.

Waitress in a restaurant smiling while taking an order, wearing a coral shirt and gray apron.

Text screenshot of a customer complaining to a waitress about ice in a drink and lack of burgers on the menu.

Text image about Mexican restaurant and burgers, linked to an unruly woman disturbing a waitress.

Text describing a woman snapping at a waitress, causing discomfort.

Text showing someone apologizing to waitress due to an incident.

Woman sitting alone in a restaurant booth, wearing a winter hat and coat, looking at her phone by the window.

Text recounting a woman snapping at a waitress; her date pays, leaves the restaurant decisively.

Text message reveals aftermath of woman snapping at waitress, causing date to leave.

Text excerpt discussing a confrontation between a woman and a date at a restaurant.

Text describing a memory of spending time at a restaurant where mom worked as a waitress.

Text from image about woman’s behavior towards waitress and personal emotions.

Man sitting in a car, visibly upset, resting his head on the steering wheel.

Comments discussing a woman snapping at a waitress and her date leaving.

Comment on Reddit about how treating servers reveals character; mentions avoiding a bad situation.

Comment discussing a woman snapping at waitress; date leaves due to red flag behavior.

Reddit comment on a woman’s behavior at a restaurant, highlighting her attitude and a date’s reaction to leave.

Text comment discussing wisdom about people rude to waitstaff, highlighting a relationship insight.

Reddit comment saying “NTA, you’re my hero” with high votes.

Reddit comment about woman snapping at waitress, featuring a Muhammad Ali quote on treating others with respect.

Comment about a woman embarrassing herself by snapping at a waitress.

Comment supporting leaving rude date who snapped at waitress.