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Siblings: cant live with em, cant live without em.
As we grow up, we often come to realize just how much we love our brothers and sisters.
After all, theyre our flesh and blood!
But unfortunately, thats not the case for everyone.
Below, youll find the full story, as well as some of the replies invested readers shared.
How could they love one more than the others?
Isnt their heart big enough for all of them?
In fact, researchers found that most families follow a similar pattern when it comes to showingfavoritism.
Moms and dads might show preferential treatment by spending more time with or more money on one kid.
And often, its daughters who tend to be favored, by both their mother and father.
Ideally, all siblings would have healthy relationships with one another in adulthood.
First, Cohen notes that brothers and sisters must be able to embrace their differences.
Open communication is also key.
The siblings should feel safe to share whats on their minds without an argument erupting.
Its important to focus on self-reflection as well.
Notice your habits, and remember that you dont have to always respond with your first impulse.
There might be a healthier way to get your message across.
And finally, always lead with empathy for your brothers and sisters.