The dinner table chatter was lighthearted until the topic of baby names came up.

The OP stated that it was completely out of the question.

They had already chosen aname, and besides, neither of them liked naming children after deceased relatives.

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The response was polite but firm: No, thanks.

The dinner moved on, but the air remained tense.

For the next few days, the stepmother remained unusually quiet.

Pregnant woman sitting on a couch, looking concerned, with a blue blanket on her lap in a warmly lit room.

But this time, the OP wasnt having it.

The conversation ended abruptly, and the stepmother withdrew, barely speaking for the rest of thetrip.

Now, the OPs father is caught in the middle.

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He suggested they could have at least pretended to consider the name to avoid hurt feelings.

But the OP stood by her decision.

She didnt believe giving false hope would have helped.

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It can also follow other major losses, like serious illness or divorce.

Grief often brings intense sadness, shock, and even denial or anger.

This could explain why the OPs stepmother was so insistent.

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She may have been experiencing complicated grief, making it harder for her to accept boundaries.

Others emphasized that the stepmother should have respected the initial no instead of pushing the issue further.

What do you think about this situation?

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Do you think the OPs stepmother was overstepping, or was this just her way of coping with grief?

We would love to hear your thoughts!

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