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You know how some people act like the world owes them something just for existing?

They waltz through life expecting VIP treatment while the rest of us are just trying to survive another Monday.

Thats when the entitlement levels go through the roof.

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The OPs brother is married to Candace, who has a 7-year-old, Kaylee, from a previous relationship.

Now, Candaces ex is nowhere to be found, so shes flying solo on the wholeparentingthing.

They didnt have to, but they wanted to.

Family moment in a bright room, with parents lifting their child playfully near a large window.

The moment Candace caught wind of this fund, she went into full meltdown mode.

According to her, Kaylee should be getting a college fund, too, because shes technically their granddaughter.

But the OPs parents didnt see it that way.

Woman discusses refusing college fund transfer to brother’s stepdaughter, causing family tension.

So, what did Candace do?

Did she calmly accept reality and move on?

She called OPs parents and straight-up demanded they fix the situation by tossing some cash Kaylees way.

Text about family’s feelings toward Candace, linked to college fund discussion.

Now, if the OP had a superpower, it was shutting down nonsense at record speed.

She gave Candace a hard Nope, leaving her entitled sister-in-law to rethink her next move.

But where doesentitlementcome from?

Elderly couple enjoying coffee by a window, showing a warm and cozy moment.

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We asked Travers how entitlement develops.

By recognizing the root causes of our entitled behavior, we can begin to address and change it.

Entitlement can become problematic when it stems from emotional deprivation in childhood.

Text about a college fund started by parents for Isla, detailing financial planning for her education.

We wanted to know if entitlement is more common among certain personality types.

However, entitlement alone does not indicate a mental health condition.

We asked Travers what was the best way to enforce boundaries with an entitled person.

Text about a woman refusing to share her child’s college fund with her brother’s stepdaughter, causing family conflict.

Check out the results:

Text about a woman explaining why she won’t use her kid’s college fund for her brother’s stepdaughter.

Woman arguing on phone, upset about kid’s college fund issue.

Comment addresses refusal of college fund handover to brother’s stepdaughter, highlighting financial expectations.

Text from a forum comment discussing a woman’s decision about her kid’s college fund.

Two people exchanging 1000 forint bills, symbolizing a financial disagreement.

Online comment discussing family tension over a college fund decision, mentioning entitlement and embarrassment.

Reddit comment supporting woman’s decision on college fund, advising her to stay firm against brother’s stepdaughter request.

Comment discussing a child’s age and starting a college fund.

Comment by user refusing to cover college costs, referencing parents’ $35,000 bonds mistake.

Comment discussing refusal to give college fund to brother’s stepdaughter, emphasizing family financial conflicts.

Comment on woman’s decision about kid’s college fund, stating it’s not to give away.

Comment addressing family entitlement and college fund refusal.

Comment on refusing to give kid’s college fund to brother’s stepdaughter, highlighting financial responsibility.

Reddit comment discussing refusal to share kid’s college fund with brother’s stepdaughter, mentions issues with sister-in-law.

Text response about college fund dispute and family expectations.

Reddit comment about family drama over a college fund dispute.

Reddit comment on college fund dispute, discussing ownership and purpose of money.