I thought, Let me draft something,' Mistry explained.
The message reads, Were sorry you cant make it to our wedding.
Our RSVP deadline has passed, and you unfortunately did not respond.
The message can then be signed by thespouses.
Consequently, the Georgia-based mom of two understands the importance of establishing the final headcount for the event.
I had to call everyone and ask, Are you coming?
It was such a waste of time, she recalled.
You have a list the size of your arm to get done and youre trying to appease everyone.
Others, however, have disapproved of her approach, deeming it too impolite.
I got criticism for being too harsh.
But people have the invite for four months … Its inconsiderate.
Were sorry you cant make it to our wedding.
As she explained, this could make the guest feel guilty about not attending the wedding.
We certainly dont want to kind of rub it in by saying [that].
I wish I would have thought of this when I got married, a woman wrote
