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When thefamilymember who held everyone like glue passes away, all sorts of conflict tend to arise.

One that many might not think about is disagreeing on how the persons ashes will be shared.

Case in point arethese siblingswho, after their moms passing, couldnt agree on who will possess the remains.

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Its also perfectly fine to share the ashes amongst the people the late was very close with.

Dont go into the conversation in a confrontational or judgmental way.

The best approach is open communication and compromise.

Man in plaid shirt gesturing in a kitchen, confronting a woman.

If disagreements persist, mediation with afuneraldirector, religious leader, or legal professional may help.

In extreme cases, courts can intervene, though this is a last resort.

To avoid conflict, pre-planning and clearly documented wishes are ideal.

Text conversation about family conflict over mother’s ashes and brother’s wife.

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Text about a couple agreeing to a monthly arrangement over wife’s dislike for frequent visits.

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