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Its said that you never really know someone until you live with them.
And onecouplediscovered just that six months after moving in together.
Theyd made plans with each other so they could have some much needed quality time together.
Both learned something about the other that theyre not quite sure they like.
The boyfriend later wondered if he took things too far in retaliation to his girlfriends day drinking.
It didnt go down well.
Did not go official until Covid lockdowns ceded around Fall 2020, the OP told Bored Panda.
He said its not the the first argument theyve had.
We have had larger arguments but never to the point where we ever suggested a break or breaking up.
Its not uncommon for couples to argue during the first few months ofmoving in together.
Theyre adjusting to being in each others space, learning new things about each other.
And in some cases, spending a lot more time together than they did before.
Many therapists agree that communication is key.
And compromise is also important so that avoid post-move-in problems.
Dr. Josh Klapowis a clinical psychologist.
Another expert, psychotherapistDr.
AnaSokoloviccautions couples not to take each other for granted.
Women feed off their friendships.
They often invest more time and effort into maintaining these relationships than men do.
The boyfriend told Bored Panda they didnt really discusswhat they will do in the future.
But he has taken her concerns into consideration.
Experts say on average, most couples shack up after one or two years of dating.
Before moving in together.
Marriagecounselor, KHara McKinney says there are certain signs a couple is ready to share the same roof.
Theyre also able to partner together.
The OP said he was surprised by how manypeople suggested his girlfriend was cheating.
He also said he didnt agree with all the people who said his girlfriend was an alcoholic.
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