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Its understandable thatparentswant to give their children anything and everything they want in the world.
Thats just how much they love them.
Surely there comes a breaking point where the parent has had enough!
And such is the case with this netizen.
She says that she resents her two sons because they keep demandingexpensive thingsand making her pay for them.
Frustrated by their behavior, the woman went online to seek advice.
She was a late mom who had three kids with her first husband.
He had survived a serious illness due to which he struggled with depression and addiction.
One day, the couple separated and this was 13 years in the past.
The original poster (OP) got married again to a wealthy man.
As her life became better, even her kids got used to the lavish way of living.
Post cancer, the woman has also taken retirement.
However, 18 months ago, her second husband left her.
She went on to express that she has always been budget-minded and focused on saving.
Thats quite a hefty sum that they were asking from their retired mom.
Ouch, that sounds hurtful!
No wonder the woman was annoyed by their extravagant demands.
She also feels disappointed that they are not savers like her.
Disheartened by it, she says she resents them and is looking for advice online.
This helps in dealing with unfavorable situations much better.
And she seems to have tried it a little, but their father always gave them what they wanted.
When the parents say yes to everything, a sense of the world working only in ones favor develops.
This could change the world view and taking rejections or denials starts seeming unfathomable to the children.
Adding on, the value for things being deserving changes, stated Riddhi.
Many folks also said that she should set a limit to their expectations or set clear boundaries.
Imbibing a value system along with accountability also goes a long way!
That was quite insightful, wasnt it?
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