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You know that awkward moment when someone asks, Hows the food?
and you hesitate because its just food?
Not bad, not great, just edible.
No dramatic flair, no exaggerated praise, just an honest answer which didnt sit well with him.
However, the OP knew what he was expecting.
The OP didnt understand this as their boyfriend wanted validation, while they believed more in authenticity.
They didnt want to be forced to do something that didnt feel natural or genuine.
In theirfamily, praise is earned and not expected.
They explain that appreciation helps create a positive atmosphere and can instantly shift the mood between partners.
It not only makes the other person feel valued, but also deepens emotional closeness.
The difference in the OP and their boyfriends approach is explained byBright Side.
They state that childhood experiences play a significant role in shaping how people behave in romantic relationships as adults.
These mismatches can lead to feelings of being unappreciated or misunderstood, even when love is present.
Netizens leaned heavily against the OP, with many labeling them as cold, inconsiderate and dismissive.
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