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No doubt a good bit of us have been taught that weought tohelp others.
And the more serious the circumstance is, the more unconditional our help ought to be.
However, there are these two things to consider before helping someone, and that is nuance and context.
In most cases, yes, you will help a human in need.
And folks on Reddit were all for it.
Its his ex,boundarieshave to be set and priorities have to be straightened out.
No two ways about it.
Otherwise, it just feels like the husband is just being used.
There arefour dimensionsto consider.
Number two is communication boundaries.
So, this might mean only using texting instead of phone calls so you could filter out the communication.
This also means unfollowing them on social media and the like.
Depending on the situation, there might be financial boundaries too.
Also, dont use kids as a form of communication.
Lastly, theres the emotional boundary.
Its essentially all about emotionally distancing yourself.
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