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Where money goes, problems may follow, and sadly, that also includes our closest relationships.

In a heartfelt post onr/AITAH, Reddit user Fancyapanda described a family conflict thats been tearing them apart.

Given the siblings current living situation, thats quite feasible, too.

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But her reluctance has led to accusations of selfishness and even threats.

With a co-signer, the loan now has a backupsomeone who will pay if the primary borrower doesnt.

Lenders like co-signers and are more likely to enter into a contract with them.

Document focused on financial security with a pen lying on top, highlighting personal finance protection.

However, that is a significant commitment.

Judging from the post, the sibling doesnt tick any of those boxes.

Our expectations may also differ according to the nature of the relationship.

Text discussing a woman choosing to protect her finances instead of co-signing a mortgage for her sister.

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Text message about financial pressure from parents to co-sign for a sister’s house.

Text conversation about financial responsibility, family pressure, and future mortgage impact.

Text about feeling guilty for prioritizing finances over helping family with mortgage co-signing.

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