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Everyone aspires to have a supportivespousewho will celebrate their successes with them.

Unfortunately, some people end up withinsecure partnerswho would, instead, pull them down.

Findings revealed that men who believed their partners scored in the top 12 percent exhibited lower self-esteem.

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According to the studys lead author,Dr.

Kate Ratliff, it could be a way of projecting their insecurities.

Picking your battles also helps, wherein more pressing matters should be the priority.

A couple arguing in a kitchen over a promotion, with vegetables on the counter.

However, when worse comes to worst, Gillis urges cutting ties or seeking professional help.

Choosing the former is a must when dealing with a spouse who could put you in potential danger.

Instead, she recommends emotionally-focused therapy, which delves deeper into relationships between feelings and emotions.

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Attachment-based therapy is another option, as it explores anxiety triggers and avoidance reactions.

It dives into the root of the problem and provides potential solutions.

The author is in a tough spot.

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The couple may benefit from seeking professional help.

This should help them decide on the next best move.

Check out the results:

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