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In a recent post on the subreddit Am I the [Jerk?
Trying to make peace with her body, the Redditor refused, and the situation got quite uncomfortable.
Healing is a multipart process, and the science behind it is quite complex.
Our immune system kicks in and creates inflammation, which helps fight infection and start healing.
A few days later, the tissue contracts and makes a scar.
It can take up to a year for a scar to fully heal and reveal its final result.
But even when healed, scar tissue is never completely like normal skin.
It would be foolish to tell people to simply get over it.
However, trying to hide our imperfections only allows them to grow.
So in the long run, making friends with them is the way to go.
We keep ourselves protected, our hearts hidden.
We deem it foolish to show vulnerability and expose our true feelings and wants.
But you cant say that the other lady was being unreasonable either.
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