For example, one Reddit user shared her story after her sister decided to plan herbaby showeron her birthday.

The post caught a lot of folks attention, collecting almost 5K upvotes.

NTA she knew it was your birthday, so its on her.

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Plus why is she having a baby shower for her fourth baby?

SHE didnt prioritizefamily, keeping a baby shower on ur bday.

NTA, another emphasized.

Woman Refuses To Cancel Her Birthday Plans To Attend Sister’s 4th Baby Shower, Gets Blocked

We need to have and communicate boundaries so that others even know what and how to respect us.

Its our responsibility to know what is and isnt acceptable to us and to let the other person know.

For some people it might lead to feelingsad, disappointed, unimportant.

Woman Refuses To Cancel Her Birthday Plans To Attend Sister’s 4th Baby Shower, Gets Blocked

For other people it might not be a big problem.

They might be a bit annoyed and then accept it without feeling any negative emotions whatsoever.

Woman Refuses To Cancel Her Birthday Plans To Attend Sister’s 4th Baby Shower, Gets Blocked

Woman Refuses To Cancel Her Birthday Plans To Attend Sister’s 4th Baby Shower, Gets Blocked

Woman Refuses To Cancel Her Birthday Plans To Attend Sister’s 4th Baby Shower, Gets Blocked

Woman Refuses To Cancel Her Birthday Plans To Attend Sister’s 4th Baby Shower, Gets Blocked

Woman Refuses To Cancel Her Birthday Plans To Attend Sister’s 4th Baby Shower, Gets Blocked

Woman Refuses To Cancel Her Birthday Plans To Attend Sister’s 4th Baby Shower, Gets Blocked

Woman Refuses To Cancel Her Birthday Plans To Attend Sister’s 4th Baby Shower, Gets Blocked

Woman Refuses To Cancel Her Birthday Plans To Attend Sister’s 4th Baby Shower, Gets Blocked

Woman Refuses To Cancel Her Birthday Plans To Attend Sister’s 4th Baby Shower, Gets Blocked

Woman Refuses To Cancel Her Birthday Plans To Attend Sister’s 4th Baby Shower, Gets Blocked

Woman Refuses To Cancel Her Birthday Plans To Attend Sister’s 4th Baby Shower, Gets Blocked

Woman Refuses To Cancel Her Birthday Plans To Attend Sister’s 4th Baby Shower, Gets Blocked

Woman Refuses To Cancel Her Birthday Plans To Attend Sister’s 4th Baby Shower, Gets Blocked

Woman Refuses To Cancel Her Birthday Plans To Attend Sister’s 4th Baby Shower, Gets Blocked

Woman Refuses To Cancel Her Birthday Plans To Attend Sister’s 4th Baby Shower, Gets Blocked

Woman Refuses To Cancel Her Birthday Plans To Attend Sister’s 4th Baby Shower, Gets Blocked

Woman Refuses To Cancel Her Birthday Plans To Attend Sister’s 4th Baby Shower, Gets Blocked

Woman Refuses To Cancel Her Birthday Plans To Attend Sister’s 4th Baby Shower, Gets Blocked

Woman Refuses To Cancel Her Birthday Plans To Attend Sister’s 4th Baby Shower, Gets Blocked

Woman Refuses To Cancel Her Birthday Plans To Attend Sister’s 4th Baby Shower, Gets Blocked

Woman Refuses To Cancel Her Birthday Plans To Attend Sister’s 4th Baby Shower, Gets Blocked