This redditor, too, was looking after her boyfriend when he was experiencingchronic pain.

But it wasnt only lack of help with the chores that bothered his partner.

Firstly, spending quality time with our loved one without distractions boosts connection.

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On a date night the focus is on each other and the activity you do together.

Its helpful to put your phones away during the date as well, the expert wrote.

Secondly, date nights build positive interactions, which can then be stored in your emotional bank account.

Man lying in bed under a gray blanket, holding his forehead, appearing to be in pain.

Check out the results:

Text on image discussing doubts about boyfriend’s illness and seeking advice.

Text from a woman discussing her boyfriend’s worsening chronic pain despite no medical consultation.

Text image discussing a man’s pain preventing him from chores or outings with girlfriend.

Text discussing a boyfriend’s claims of chronic pain and fatigue despite looking healthy.

Woman looks frustrated, man in background, illustrating relationship and cleaning pain issues.

Text highlights a guy’s selective excuses for avoiding activities with girlfriend while engaging in other tasks.

Text discussing a guy avoiding chores and social activities due to pain but showing interest in other tasks.

Text discussing a man avoiding cleaning or spending time with girlfriend due to pain, yet being active in other areas.

Two men hiking in the forest, carrying backpacks and walking sticks, enjoying outdoor activities.

Text about researching autoimmune disorders and conditions causing pain issues.

Text about a guy discussing chronic pain and avoiding solutions while socializing.

Text about a man’s pain preventing work and activities, but doing other tasks. Partner concerned about financial support.

Man in pain holding his back, wearing white t-shirt and plaid pants, near a sofa.

Text questioning boyfriend’s chronic pain and seeking answers for too much pain to clean or hang out.

Text discussing a boyfriend potentially using pain as an excuse, questioning if an ultimatum for medical care is needed.

Text discussing boyfriend’s questionable chronic pain and relationship concerns.

Woman Notices Something Off About BF’s Undiagnosed Chronic Pain: “I’m Starting To Question Things”

Woman Notices Something Off About BF’s Undiagnosed Chronic Pain: “I’m Starting To Question Things”

Reddit comment criticizing a man for using his pain as an excuse to avoid responsibilities.

Reddit comment discussing chronic pain and its impact on relationships and chores.

Text discussing a guy avoiding chores due to pain, but managing fun activities, seen as potentially using his girlfriend.

Comment discussing a boyfriend’s behavior, suggesting he uses pain as an excuse to avoid chores and spending time with his girlfriend.

Text conversation about a guy in pain excusing not cleaning or hanging out with his girlfriend.

Comment questioning if a guy’s pain excuses him from chores but not fun activities with friends.

Text post questioning claims of pain affecting cleaning and social activities.

Text discussing skepticism about a guy’s pain and his reluctance to manage it through professional help.

Text of a comment discussing suspicion about a boyfriend’s excuses for avoiding chores.

Comment criticizing a guy for not valuing his girlfriend, suggesting she should end the relationship.

Text post discussing chronic pain and personal experiences related to it.

Comment about a guy in pain unwilling to clean or see a doctor.

Text discussing man’s pain affecting his ability to clean or socialize, but not other activities.

Text about boyfriend’s illness and people’s support for those with chronic pain.

Text about relationship challenges, mentioning a boyfriend needing medical help and employment motivation.

Doctor writing notes with a laptop, illustrating pain management consultation.

Text discussing energy management for sharing household responsibilities and balancing social activities.

Text image discussing arguments over cleaning efforts and relationship standards.

Text image discussing a guy’s complaints about not cleaning or socializing with his girlfriend.

Woman with cleaning supplies, looking frustrated, in a living room setting.

Text about guy’s chronic pain affecting his relationship, while showing indifference to his partner’s feelings.

Message of gratitude for support and kindness.

Text discussing separation due to boyfriend’s chronic pain.

Reddit comment advising a person on relationship health, emphasizing the importance of partners and communication.

Reddit comment criticizing someone for being lazy and not contributing.

Text message about a guy faking pain to avoid cleaning or socializing with girlfriend.

Comment about a guy using excuses to avoid responsibilities and relationships.

Reddit comment about someone using illness as an excuse to avoid cleaning and spending time with a girlfriend.

Online comment discussing relationship issues and a person’s reluctance due to pain.

Text describing a guy avoiding chores and socializing due to pain, yet engaging in other activities.

Text screenshot discussing chronic illness impact on relationship, contrasting with a partner unwilling to help.

Text discusses chronic health issues in relationships, partner burden, and advice to stay strong and maintain self-worth.

Comment about chronic pain and reluctance to seek help, highlighting suspicion of enjoying activities while unemployed.

Comment discussing a guy claiming he’s in pain to avoid chores with his girlfriend, implying he’s insincere.

Comment discussing relationship advice and emotional relief.

User comment on relationship pain, suggesting separation if unwilling to fight for love.

Text screenshot discussing a guy’s true behavior in a painful relationship situation.

Reddit comment critiquing a guy for avoiding cleaning and socializing with his girlfriend.