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Pre-weddingdrama is the last thing any couple wants.
A woman in her 60s was a bridesmaid to her soon-to-be sister-in-law, who was in her late 20s.
Her role required her to wear askimpy dress, which she wasnt comfortable with.
After her requests for a change were repeatedly denied, she took matters into her own hands.
However, her actions sparked so much outrage that she was booted from the wedding.
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Andre says that shouldnt be a problem.
Trying to find a balance is commendable, but only sometimes realistic, she said.
Instead of trying to satisfy everyone, Andre suggests managing expectations.
The preliminary decisions must come from the couple before involving the opinions of family and friends.
Should there be disagreements or negative reactions from guests, Bunkley advises couples to let them go.
You may find resolution to other issues, while others may linger for a long time.
The woman couldve also bowed out from herbridesmaidobligations if the outfit requirement didnt suit her.
They couldve arrived at a compromise without causing tension.
