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In todays world, many blendedfamiliesfind ways to coexist without members causing too much trouble to each other.
Time management, setting expectations, and other strategies help them to do so.
Like the one from todays story.
Sadly, their reality is way more chaotic than that.
In fact, the mans current wife is thinking about leaving.
So, you might see why it might require accommodation from other people.
The OP agreed to the accommodation, and lets just say that eventually, she came to regret thisdecision.
The main problem that arose was that the ex-wife never gave her schedule ahead of time.
Plus,routinesarent only beneficial for kids, its good for the whole family too.
Since these kids are pretty young, 7 and 10 years old, planning for them is a necessity.
The parents cant simply, for example,leavethem home alone for a couple of hours.
To make matters worse, her husband doesnt really want to create any waves.
She got the answer from Mumsnet users that it doesnt sound unreasonable at all.
The way shes living seems irritating at least accommodating someone who basically doesntrespectyou is not a way to live.
Well, of course, its sad that the relationship has reached the point where an ultimatum is needed.
What we can only hope is that an ultimatum will work and this insufferable situation will soon be fixed.
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