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Breaking up with a friendcan be just as painful as ending arelationshipwith a partner.
Sometimes even more so.
And the healing process doesnt happen overnight.
When you lose a bunch of besties at the same time, the shock and sadness can be overwhelming.
A woman hassharedhow she got booted from her girls group, thanks to the mean ring leader.
To make matters worse, the womans BFF didnt stand up for her.
But instead, proceeded to exclude her from birthday celebrations and get-togethers to avoid any awkwardness.
She adds that its natural for her wonder why she and her boyfriends were invited to Katswedding.
Hearsay about you being a bridesmaid is just that, cautions Randall.
That friend should have kept it to herself for several reasons… She could have misheard.
Kat could have been joking or casually tossing out names.
Kat could change her mind about asking you.
She took away Kats moment to make amends with you.
Do you want to be there for her?
This will help to avoid any possibleawkwardnessat the wedding.
you might express how surprised and happy you were to receive the invitation, she added.
Then let her respond.
The conversation could lead to releasing resentment and healing wounds.
However, Randall says if the get-together doesnt feel genuine.
Send a nice card, suggests Randall.
The Etiquette Expert says it can be weird to send awedding inviteto someone you havent spoken to in ages.
Is it your way of apologizing or expressing regret for what happened?
Is she just another gift-giver?
Are you too nervous to make the first move?
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