They were finally ready to downsize, relax, and maybe even nap in peace.

But the OPs mother-in-law had other plans for them.

She and her father-in-law were planning to move in once the daughter went off to college.

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Only, she forgot one teeny tiny detail: she treated her daughter-in-law like expiredtofufor the past two decades.

So, what did she do?

She went no contact with her in-laws and the extended crew, and hubby went low contact.

Three people sitting on a couch, smiling in a cozy home setting.

Theyre a beautiful thing.

Themother-in-lawdid not take it well and started a family smear campaign, complete with guilt-tripping and name-calling.

But the final cherry on this already ridiculous sundae?

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The mother-in-law calls her daughter-in-law a white devil.

Or maybe just entitled?

Its not just about wanting things; its about believing one deserves them just because.

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Entitled people often have a buffet of reasons for their absurd demands.

But see, that doesnt work on everyone.

When you encounter anentitled personin the wild, be clear, calm, and consistent.

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Healthy families respect them, even if it takes a few awkward conversations and some practice rounds.

Check out the results:

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Text discussing plans for a designated room for visiting children, supported by both children.

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Text discussing MIL’s expectation to live with son’s family for care; husband surprised by obligation to care for elders.

Text discussing MIL being retired, not financially burdened, and caregiving as a mental and physical burden.

Text reveals a family dispute as MIL demands care; DIL refuses, citing previous treatment issues.

Text asking if saying no to MIL living with them makes them wrong.

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Text discussing cultural norms for caring for elderly parents.

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Text message discussing MIL’s treatment explaining why she can’t live with them.

Text dialogue discussing care options, DIL reluctant to care for MIL, considers assisted living due to family dynamics.

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Reddit comment discussing a DIL refusing care for a MIL after years of mistreatment.

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MIL-DIL tension; MIL demands care despite decades of conflict. DIL refuses, citing past treatment.

Text message on in-law relationship challenges and caregiver refusal.

Reddit comment about outdated customs and enjoying empty nest, related to MIL and DIL conflict.

Reddit comment discussing family dynamics related to a mother-in-law and daughter-in-law’s strained relationship.

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