Unfortunately, there will sometimes be extenuating circumstances that make it impossible for friends to be on call.

But does that mean the entire relationship should be thrown away?

One woman was recently called selfish for skipping her best friends birthday forhealthreasons.

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And it can be even harder to keep one around for over a decade.

But when you meet someone that you really mesh with, youll never want to let them go.

So what does it really mean to be a good friend?

Person receiving chemo treatment, resting on a pillow, wearing a plaid shirt.

They should also be a good listener and make you feel better after spending time with them.

True friends arent judgmental and are low-maintenance.

They should always respect boundaries, encourage you and make time for you.

Text exchange about missing a friend’s 25th birthday due to personal reasons.

But a healthy friendship must go both ways.

Lupusis a chronic autoimmune disease that mainly impacts a persons skin, joints and internal organs.

Symptoms can vary widely, but they often include intense fatigue, joint pain and a butterfly rash.

Text discussing undergoing chemo for lupus treatment.

However, there are potential side effects.

The drugs used in chemo for lupus may include methotrexate, belimumab, mycophenolate mofetil and cyclophosphamide.

At the same time, they discourage patients from over-exerting themselves and neglecting self-care and healthy habits.

Text message about missing a birthday due to chemo, mentions ordering a cake from a local bakery.

We would love to hear your thoughts on this situation below, pandas.

Do you think this woman was overreacting?

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Birthday cake with pink icing and raspberries, celebrating a special 25th birthday occasion.

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Text exchange about missing a birthday due to rescheduled chemotherapy.

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Text exchange discussing chemo appointment and missing a birthday event.

Text exchange about missing a 25th birthday due to chemo, highlighting disagreement.

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Group text exchange about missing a birthday due to chemo, questioning friend’s understanding.

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Online discussion about missing a birthday due to chemo.

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Reddit comment expressing frustration about a friend’s reaction to missing a birthday due to chemo.

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Comment criticizing a friend’s reaction to someone missing a birthday due to chemo, expressing disbelief and sympathy.

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Comment discusses emotional immaturity regarding missing a friend’s 25th birthday due to chemo.