But wheres the line between appreciation and a full-fledged financial obligation?
At first, it was just a fewluncheshere and there.
But soon, it became clear that this wasnt an occasional treatit was an expectation.
Now, dont get me wrong, no one is saying the OPs mother-in-law must pay every time.
But a simple offer to chip in?
That would go a long way.
But alas, paying remains a mystery to her.
Just a comfortable silence as herchildrenscramble to cover yet another bill.
So, why do someparentsfeel like their kids should start paying for them once they hit adulthood?
Sure, they raised them, but does that mean the financial responsibility shifts entirely in the other direction?
Its a tricky balance, especially when younger couples are still trying to make ends meet.
Setting healthy financial boundaries is key, even if it means a few awkward conversations along the way.
Theprossay the key is keeping it casual but clear.
Instead of waiting until youre stuck with yet another bill, bring it up in a lighthearted way.
Or use the Whos Got This One?
When the bill arrives, dont reach for it first.
Your mother-in-law might surprise you or at least experience a moment of discomfort.
Grown-up children shouldnt feel obligated tofunda parents lifestyle at their own expense.
Financial support should be a choice, not a guilt trip.
Theres a difference between covering a parents necessary expenses and feeling like a personal ATM.
Moral of the story?
Otherwise, the only thing getting exercised during her stay is your credit card.
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