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With enough time, people in your life reveal whether they are truly with you or against you.

Its in poor taste to announce your big news at someone elses wedding or special event, Whitmoresaid.

You are essentially taking the spotlight off the bride and groom and directing it on yourself, Whitmore added.

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This can be perceived as rude,self-centered, and narcissistic.

It screams, Look at me.

But losing a friend is still a really hard thing to go through.

Red ring box on a wooden table with greenery, highlighting an engagement ring and wedding themes.

Commenting on the conflict from afar, the solution can seem easy just cut her out of your life.

But even if they wronged us, it can still put an emotional toll on us.

The story becomes theirs, not ours.

Text about a bride questioning if she’s wrong for asking a friend not to propose at her wedding.

But unless theyre also willing to hear us, repairing the breach may not be possible.

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