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Some folks say, Once acheater, always a cheater.
But is that really true, or can serial cheaters change?
But his girlfriend sure loves herdrinks, and sometimes, she has one too many.
Now, usually, this just means shes having a good time while hes off playing video games.
But not this time.
She confessed to cheating on every single one of her exes.
Yeah, all of them.
And to make matters worse, she wasnt even ashamed!
She was low-key bragging about it like it was her own twisted superpower that she never got caught.
Seven ex-boyfriends, zero clues.
Our guy was like, Hold up, what?!
He paused his game and dug for more details, probably hoping she was kidding.
Spoiler: she wasnt.
She doubled down, confirming that her serial-cheating days were 100% real.
At this point, the OPs brain was doing mental gymnasticsthree years together, and now this?
The next morning, the sobergirlfriendwas happily making breakfast like nothing ever happened.
But our dudes mind was racing, and he had to bring up what she spilled the night before.
And wouldnt you know itshe crumbled.
The OPs mind immediately went into overdrive.
Has she cheated on him too?
Was she just really good at hiding it?
Should he ever trust her again?
This was all after he had been seriously consideringmarryingher just a month before.
I think Id probably reconsider my plans at this point.
And so did the OP after having a little chat with his girlfriend.
Individuals may cheat in search of validation, thrill, or a way to escape overwhelming emotions.
Insecurity, fear of intimacy, or feelings of disconnection from their partner can also drive some toward infidelity.
We asked Dr. Berman if therapy can actually help a serial cheater reform.
We asked Dr. Berman if it is possible for someone who cheats in every relationship to eventually change.
She explained, Its possible, but honestly its rare.
For them to change, they would need to go through significant personal transformation, Berman suggests.
But for the OP, it was too little, too late.
The trust was already gone, and with it, his desire to stay in the relationship.
No dramatic blow-ups, no dragging it out.
He chose his peace of mind over constant doubt.
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