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Sometimes our family members can see our friends or partners more clearly than us.
She shared some examples that made her family keep a distance from her.
Another thing was when OPs mom supported the mans decision to get a tattoo.
His girlfriend kept calling his mom complaining and suggesting that the whole family attend therapy.
She announced that shes 3 months pregnant and went on a long rant about the family dynamics.
However, after this followed the question of why nobody likes her.
Surprised, OP laughed out loud and asked if she was serious.
Community members were also on OPs side and gave her the Not the A-hole badge.
Thats an abuser trying to isolate your brother from his friends and family.
you better all get together and fix this before it gets worse, another added.
There may have been many missed opportunities to make things better.
What if she wants to be part of her boyfriends family dynamic and was really looking for help?
Setting and keeping boundaries is the key to healthy family relationships, especially with extended families.
He emphasizes that the family needs to explore the nature of the relationship between the brother and his girlfriend.
What does he see in her?
What are his plans their plans for the pregnancy?
Are they going to start their own family?
But if there is a desire to repair the relationship, this can be done outside of major events.
So basically, setting and keeping boundaries is the key to healthy family relationships, especially with extended families.
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And what do you guys think about this situation?
Was the sister being mean or was she right to react this way?
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Redditors backed up the woman and assured her that the problem is with her brothers girlfriend
