Indeed, weaponized incompetence can occur in a lot of everyday situations.
You ask your partner, Why is our home a mess?
In the worst-case scenario, these actions are intentional and calculated.
Sometimes its used by a partner strategically to shift the responsibility of tasks to you, Mendez explained.
This is a very skillful form of manipulation that can go unnoticed for some time.
But she added that isnt always the case.
It doesnt always come from a bad place.
And judging from the mans post, he was aware of his wifes cooking skills even before marrying her.
Time passes, we grow, and our personalities as well as our schedules change together with us.
Most importantly, the relationship should feel balanced and couples ought to be able to have productive problem-solving conversations.
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