Theyre also a great way to express yourself and discover new passions.

But what happens when your hobbies arent exactly yours?

When theyre more of a copy-paste situation, inspired by someone elses interests?

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Well, lets just say things can get messy, especially whenrelationshipsare involved.

Every time her friend got a newboyfriend, she essentially downloaded his personality and hobbies like a software update.

Dating a blackbelt in Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu?

Couple laughing on the floor with pillows, illustrating shared hobbies and relationships.

Time to roll into the gym.

Crushing on a pastry chef?

Suddenly, shes all about baking croissants like shes auditioning for The Great Bake Off or something.

Text about a woman who copies every hobby her boyfriends have.

Interested in a guy with a snake collection?

Why not consider buying a cobra?

How are we casually glossing over buying a cobra, is beyond me.

Text describing a woman who copies her boyfriend’s hobby of gaming, spending $2500 on equipment despite never playing before.

But the latest hit?

Ouch, thats harsh.

And their mutual friends seemed to think so, too.

Text describing a woman copying each boyfriend’s hobbies, almost buying a pet cobra, advised to stop by a friend.

As you might imagine, thedinnergot a little awkward after that.

She swore up and down that she wasnt being cruel, just honest.

Maybe a little too honest, if you ask me.

A woman discussing hobbies at a dinner table with friends.

But hey, at least she didnt end up with a pet cobra.

That would have been a fun story.

I get it; having hobbies is really important; they are not just time-fillers.

Text recounting advice given to a woman who copies her boyfriends' hobbies.

Theyre basically soul-boosters that give us a chance to step away from life for a sec.

Whether its painting, gardening, or gaming,hobbiesare little lifesavers.

Plus, they can make you a much more interesting person to talk to at parties.

Text from a woman discussing Reddit comments and reactions to hobbies and validation.

Check out the results:

A woman with glasses animatedly talks among friends, while a man in a red jacket stands behind, creating a lively scene.

Text exchange about hobbies, mentioning a comment by @Durvillea, related to a woman’s copying habits.

Text about jealousy and hobbies with a sarcastic tone.

Text exchange about copying hobbies, expressing gratitude for attention through multiple channels.

Gaming setup with dual monitors, keyboard, and headphones; a perfect hobby space.

Text exchange discussing a woman exploring hobbies from her boyfriends, with a friend advising her to stop.

Text discussing the risks of adopting hobbies based on significant others' interests.

Reddit comment criticizing a friend for mocking someone trying to find a hobby.

Comment about a woman spending excessively on hobbies shared with boyfriends, mentioning $2500 on video games.

Comment advising a woman to find her own hobbies and not just copy her significant others' interests.

Text comment discussing a woman who copies her boyfriend’s hobbies, with advice to find her own interests.

Comment referencing Ann Perkins and Leslie Knope suggesting snake juice.

Comment discussing a woman’s pattern of adopting boyfriends' hobbies, potential cobra ownership, and advice to stop.

Comment discussing a woman’s tendency to adopt her partners' hobbies, sparking a friend’s advice to change.

Reddit comment discussing woman’s hobbies related to her relationships.