But what should you do when someone insufferable wants to go beyond acquaintanceship?
Now shes turned to the internet for advice on how to shake off the problematic person.
This means she doesnt get out much, because her husband works part time.
Well, agreeing to the meetup turned out to be a very bad move for OP.
Now OP is wondering if she should say something or just dodge Zoes messages until she gets the hint.
I absolutely do not want to be friends, OP concluded in her post.
Raypole suggests a few strategies that might help.
Firstly, avoid playing into their reality.
Toxic people have a tendency to see themselves as the victim in almost every situation.
Instead, Raypole says you should opt for respectful disagreement instead.
Second, dont let yourself get drawn in.
Raypole writes, Resist the urge to jump on the complaining train with them or defend yourself against accusations.
Instead, respond with a simple, Im sorry you feel that way, and leave it at that.
Finally, put yourself first.
Perhaps the person in question desperately needs your help to get them out of trouble whenever you see them.
Healthy relationships involve give and take, says Sueskind.
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