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Most folks see theirpartnersbirthday as an excellent excuse to celebrate with them and do something nice.
After all, who wants to date a person who does not care about your birthday?
However, actually organizing something can be an intensive test of planning and logistics.
Awoman askedif she was wrong to cancel her BFs birthday party after he was multiple hours late.
People online did their best to give some insight and suggestions.
However, if the guest of honor isnt around, your hands are pretty tied.
The real issue is how he reacted.
Even if there wasnt a party, letting your partner know your plans is just common courtesy.
Notcommunicatingand then being angry that your partner didnt read your mind is both very dumb and a red flag.
Similarly, after a few hours, guests will start to leave if you dont give them an update.
If it seems like you dont care, why should they?
He did promise he would be back in time after agreeing to help at work.
Its unclear if he had to help, or he just decided to.
Its not like she has the responsibility to make them stay.
At that point, canceling was just a formality.
Then you arrive late, and its over.
Its not hard to see how this would make someone grouchy.
That being said, everyone hasbad days, taking it out like this on your partner is poor behavior.
He agrees to do the work, he is late and he gives zero updates.
The details are scarce, but the fight must have been significant enough for him to leave the house.
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