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Yourbachelorette partyis considered your last hurrah beforetying the knot.
And itd be awesome to have your besties and fave family members there, all having fun together.
But sometimes, its just not possible.
Especially when theres beef between the bridesmaids and one or more of the guests.
Onewomanfound herself caught in some serious drama in the run-up to her sister-in-laws wedding.
She is not a fan of the bridesmaids at all and believes theyre a bunch of drunks.
She knew the hens night was happening but everything else is a total surprise.
She reiterated that the issue was with the bridesmaids and not her sister-in-law.
My sister-in-law is a pretty serious person, she knows what she wants in life.
She lets her hair down and cuts loose every now and then.
I think out of the three of them, shes grown up, but her friends havent.
I wont be there by the time everyone starts getting drunk.
Wedding magazine The Knot recently did someresearchand found that on average, they cost around $1,400.
Many people dont mind paying their own way.
When surveyed, most said they were excited to celebrate with friends and considered it money well spent.
$400 is more or less what most people paid to attend a bachelorette in 2023.
A one night bash for a bunch of people and a longer weekend away for just three.
Generally, aguests contribution would go towards a party they have been invited to.
In an interview with The Knot, he saidits crucial to be sensitive to everyonesbudget.
Herecommendsthe host reaches out to all guests to find out what their budget is.
And then determine the lowest figure and work around that.
Plan The Henis a website dedicated to all things hen parties and bachelorettes.
One of the most common reasons for declining a hen do is the cost.
And things clearly got heated after that.
They suggest letting the hosts know early, and being as clear and concise as possible.
How To Henis a run by a professional hen party researcher.
Theirsitesays guests should always remember, its not about them.
This happens a lot with budget issues.
They add that the organizers usually consult with all the guests about their budgets.
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