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You know the saying Once bitten, twice shy?

Yeah, well, betrayal hits different when it comes from someone whos supposed to have your back.

This dude skipped the entire honesty chapter of the relationship handbook.

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The STD came with fertility risks anddoctorsexplicitly told him to inform his partners.

But Jason decided to go the silent but shady route.

Wait, not so fast.

A woman in distress, wearing white, holds her forehead in an office setting, illustrating personal relationship struggles.

claiming Jason had changed.

The OP walked away.

But that didnt stop hersisterfrom dating him anyway.

Text asking if she was wrong for confronting her sister about dating her STD-spreading ex.

So, the OP shut her out.

But guess who couldnt handle the silence?

Sis suddenly realized actions have consequences (who knew?)

Text recounting a breakup due to partner hiding an STD, focusing on trust issues and consequences.

and started trying to crawl back.

But the OPs response?

You lost me the second you even considered dating him.

Text reading about family support and sister’s involvement in a challenging situation.

Now sis dearest is crying but the rest of the family is siding with the OP.

So no, the OP is not the a-hole.

Shes just someone who survived betrayal and rebuilt her life.

Text discussing moving on after breaking up with an ex.

When a family member crosses a line, it hits at the core of your identity.

But healing doesnt mean you have to keep them in your life.

Forgiveness is optional, but its for you, not for them.

Man with nose ring and long hair standing on a bridge, exemplifying a complex relationship decision.

After all, you dont want to carry that betrayal trauma around forever.

Betrayal trauma isnt just a dramatic plot twistit can actually mess with your brain.

When someone you trust deeply breaks that trust, your body reacts like youve been hit by a truck.

Text discussing a woman’s reaction to her sister choosing an ex who spread an STD over family loyalty.

Check out the results:

Text involving sister asking about dating an ex-boyfriend named Jason, describing changes and her feelings.

Text conversation about sister’s relationship choice causing a rift.

Text about family conflict over sister’s STD-spreading ex and resulting estrangement.

Text discussing a sister’s distress over relationship choices and attempts to reconcile, related to STD-spreading ex.

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Text shares a story about a woman ignoring her sister after choosing an STD-spreading boyfriend.

Text about a sister’s confrontation and remorse over an ex, seeking forgiveness to mend their relationship.

Text conversation about sister’s relationship choices and consequences.

Text discussing family conflict over relationship choices, focusing on sister’s decision regarding ex with STD.

Text message discussing sister’s feelings and asking if the writer is at fault in a family disagreement about an ex.

Sisters in a tense conversation on a couch, one gesturing while the other listens with a thoughtful expression.

Reddit comment thread discussing sister choosing ex over family, highlighting family event tensions.

Online discussion about a sister choosing an ex accused of spreading an illness, causing family conflict and seeking forgiveness.

Discussion on sister choosing ex over family, seeking forgiveness.

Text discussing issues of a woman’s sister choosing an ex who spread STDs, and the consequences.

Conversation about sister choosing ex, discussing STDs and relationship history.

A Reddit post discussing relationships with a partner accused of spreading STDs and whether true change is possible.

Text discussing relationship issues between sisters over a controversial ex.

Reddit comment discussing a sister choosing her ex over family, speculating on cheating and the risk of STDs.

Comment on a forum discussing relationship issues and sibling rivalry over an ex.

Reddit comment criticizing woman’s choice of an ex over sister, describing it as unforgivable.