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Many people, unfortunately, grow up inabusive households.

A womanendured lifelongunfair treatmentfrom her immediate relatives, having to support them fully and not have it reciprocated.

The last straw for her came when she prepared well-thought-out Christmas gifts for everyone andreceived nothing of substancein return.

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Tired and fed up, she contemplates canceling holiday celebrations and possibly cutting ties with her family.

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According to author and psychotherapistDr.

A woman looking distressed with a festive background, symbolizing emotional stress over family and presents.

Avery Neal, such a trait makes someone prone to abuse.

It applies to familial and romantic relationships.

Empathyis an excellent trait, but having too much of it has downsides.

Alt text: “Woman upset about poor family’s inability to buy gifts, considering canceling Christmas.

Shes already stated her case, yet she remains to be ignored.

According to licensed therapistDr.

Claire Jack, these are clear signs that she should cut contact with her abusive relatives.

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At this point, it may be healthier for the woman tokeep her distancefrom everyone.

She has done more than enough to show them her love and care.

It wont be easy because it still involves family, but it may be for the best.

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