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When afriendenters into a new relationship, the first thing you want to be is supportive.
Everyone deserves the benefit of the doubt at first, right?
Thats why one woman decided to bite her tongue when she noticed somered flagsin her friends new beau.
Below, youll find the full story that was recentlypostedon the Am I the [Jerk]?
subreddit, as well as some of the replies readers shared.
But have you ever wondered where the popular French maid costume came from?
These dresses were typically made out of silk or satin and included frilly white aprons.
But of course, the ones that we see today usually cover a lot less skin.
But maid cosplay is especially popular in Japan, where maid cafes bring in plenty of customers every day.
The cafes were established to provide people with a safe place to socialize and relax after work.
While plenty of people do choose to wear these maid outfits for fun (evenmen!
), thats clearly not whats happening in this story.
Another red flag is trying to micromanage and control things, such as what their partner wears.
Your body is your own, and nobody has the right to tell you what to do with it.
Telling a partnerwhat to wearalso implies that theyre incapable of making their own decisions.
Its also important to keep in mind that allowing someone to cross your boundaries is a slippery slope.
Today, its just wearing a maid outfit.
Readers assured the author that she had every right to refuse the outfit
Thanks!
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