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The tiny things left unspoken in amarriagecan often lead to bigger problems later.
Sometimes, couples skirt around issues because they know talking about them will lead to conflict.
But this kind of tiptoeing does more harm than good.
Instead of talking to her spouse, the woman reached out to online strangers for advice.
We asked Julia why so many couples are not on good terms with their in-laws.
She said, we can easily blame our spouses parents for the things that frustrate us.
Another example is spouses often have unspoken relationship tensions with their parents before they got married.
Thats why we askedJuliafor techniques families could use to bridge the gap between them and their in-laws.
However, she is wrestling with the emotional aspects, like jealousy, bitterness, and comparison.
Those are the actual ingredients of relationships that need to be talked about.
The sooner we address the real tensions, the easier it is.
The longer we wait, the more challenging it becomes, Julia added.
Another glaring issue with the post is howbiasedthe woman seems toward her in-laws.
That itself might be putting pressure on their relationship and leading to the husband ultimately feeling the strain.
There are a lot of biases hidden in that statement.
Biases arent right or wrong; they are the judgments that block us from connection.
Thats exactly what many netizens advised the poster to do as well.
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