Years later, this revelation shattered what the OP once believed was the best of her life.
He didnt want to marry me but he didnt want to embarrass me either, the OP recalls.
And knowing this, she started re-evaluating her wedding and all her memories.
The OP loved being a bride and felt like a princess wearing a special dress on her big day.
What about the framed photo of her in all her bridal glow?
Tossed like last seasons fashion.
After finding this out, her husband completely shut down.
However, there is a difference between just feeling nervous and having cold feet.
So, after learning the truth, the OPs reaction makes a lot of sense.
Sometimes, love just isnt enough to save a marriage.
As hard as divorce may be, its more difficult living with a person you feel completely disconnected from.
A negativerelationshipdynamic can seriously impact a persons mentalhealthand well-being.
As the OP explained in a comment to her post, this is exactly what she was going through.
I dont know if my husband loves me or if he stays out of pity or stagnation.
I know that he can keep a secret for years.
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