One particular behavior embodying problematicgender normshas gained traction on social media:weaponized incompetence.
On TikTok, the term weaponized incompetence has nearly 75 million posts as of Wednesday (September 11).
In one particularvideoon the social media platform, educator Laura Danger slammed what appeared to be a prank.
The prank in question consisted of ahusbandbeing asked to wash the potatoes by his visibly busy wife.
She stated: Trying to call this comedy is making light of an issue that is serious.
There is a stress gap between men andwomen.
She continued: Compared to men, women are twice as likely to suffer from severe stress and anxiety.
Married women do more housework than married men.
Women were also more likely to rate their stress as more intense (8-10/10) compared to men.
Why dont you just do it?
I have never had to do this in my life!
To which her husband replied: That makes total sense because I cant either.
Lets call a mechanic!
Consider the division of labor in the relationship,Dr.
Are you and your partner comfortable with your respective chores?
I wonder if this is the more unintentional form of weaponized incompetence.
I dont think we will ever know, but communication and openness between individuals will always be essential.
Dr. Scott finally advised: Communication is essential on both sides!
Perhaps hiring extra help or alternating responsibilities may be worth considering.
Its honestly very depressing, a person commented
Thanks!
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