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When two peopleget married, they vow to honor and love each other.
The story were covering here also falls into this unfortunate statistic.
Redditor u/boshiebabhy recently shared the story of how her husbandcheatedon her with his 20-year-old student.
u/boshiebabhyalso kindly agreed to chat withBored Pandaabout her experience.
Read her thoughts down below!
She tells us that telling others, even if anonymously, has helped her cope a great deal.
Reddit is a place Ive come to share a couple [of] personal stories.
It can be somewhere people bond over shared experiences through the written word.
[It was] someone he knew I had been mutuals with for the entirety of our relationship.
It was like a flip switched.
One day, he didnt care, the next, he was screaming I had betrayed him.
Nothing, no amount of talking or evidence, could convince him otherwise.
The Redditor told us more details about that, too.
She came over often.
She was in our home many times months before he left, the woman recounts.
However, the wife didnt find out aboutthe affairfrom the husband or the 20-year-old.
That person let me know it had been going on for some time.
The kind of woman with the capacity to forgive them and be compassionate.
I think continuing to face the situation head-on instead of running from it will be the most beneficial.
Well see how I feel when Im on the other side of this journey.
The woman hasnt sought any professional help, but shes more than open to it.
I should, anyone should in situations like this.
As many of us know, its hard to find time between full-time jobs and full-time parenting.
I have been put on medication, which has helped tremendously, she adds.
However, she has receivedsupport from other women.
The day I went to ask for help is one I still cannot think about without crying.
They have been rocks!
Many of them had gone through similar situations of infidelity.
Thats her number one piece of advice for others who might be going through a similar thing.
Reach out to people around you, she urges.
Talk about your pain.
If youre hurting, dont be afraid to reach out to loved ones or even a stranger.
Heck, write an anonymous post on the Internet!
There are hundreds of people who have gone through similar [things].
But most importantly, know you are loved and worth it.
Even if it doesnt feel like it right now.
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