These traits are essential inrelationshipswhere being able to rest assured about your partner is a number one priority.
Unfortunately forredditor FancyFranny33, this trait of her partner appeared quite late in the relationship.
It happened one night when her husband got way too intoxicated and drove into a house.
One primary reason for this is fear.
When we do something wrong, our innate instinct is to protect ourselves from negative outcomes.
Thats why some people might deny, deflect, or even lie about their misdeeds.
Another thing that plays a big part in this is our ego.
Accepting responsibility requires us to admit that we arent perfect, which can be tough to acknowledge for many.
Being unable to overstep this psychological barrier is often why some people cant hold themselves accountable.
Over time, it becomes a coping mechanism used to instinctively survive, especially when they do something wrong.
In relationships, its called blame-shifting and can be harmful tocouplesas it repeats manipulative and controlling behaviors.
In relationships where one significant other is held responsible for anothers faults, it can erode self-esteem and self-trust.
Breaking out of the destructive blame cycle is possible, but it requires emotional maturity and communication.
Its never easy, and it can feel defeatingeven painfulespecially when the emotional wounds are still fresh.
Edward Ratush, a sex therapist and board-certified psychiatrist.
The couple should also make accountability a priority and learn to apologize when they make mistakes.
The readers advised the woman to run for the hills
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