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According to the expert, families tend to be informal systems, where communication can be stunted by assumptions.
We assume we know what the people in our families are thinking and feeling.
We assume we know these people, their values, their situations, and whats important to them.
We remember past hurts and we weave them into the stories we create about the people in our families.
Itsvitalto be financially comfortable or secure before giving money to others, Julia Chung emphasized.
However, the survey revealed that many people think thatparentsshould help their children, too, as should siblings.
Clearly, opinions on the matter differ not only among members of the OPs family.
According to AmeriprisesFamily Wealth Checkupstudy from 2017, roughly 15% of brothers and sisters have conflicts over money.
I think its really important to spend some of your hard-earned money on yourself, Julia Chung toldBored Panda.
I dont believe weve been given these lives so that we can toil until we are dead.
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