For the redditoru/AdRelative130, problems started when she got accepted into a really good college.
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The expert added that he would use phrases such as We love you.
We believe in you.
Feiler also emphasized the importance of balance, explaining that every child has strengths and weaknesses.
Your job is to stay out of the way of their strengths and balance their weaknesses.
Whatever they dont do well is a sign of where they need you.
My advice is to avoid overly ranking schools, he said.
Then wait and see the choices you decide and choose among them.
Your odds of success are virtually guaranteed, he added.
The expert also pointed out that its important to remember there are other great schools out there.
Fellow redditors didnt think the OP was a jerk in this situation
