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Moneycomplicates relationships, and more so if they were difficult to begin with.
Unfortunately, past grievances and wrongdoings often come into play, as old wounds might get reopened.
Because her sisters past actions caused a rift between them, she had hardly any contact with her parents.
Bored Pandareached out to Certified Financial Therapist and Marriage and Family TherapistNathan Astle.
This may be strong language, but it is true.
Astle emphasizes the importance of drawing and maintaining boundaries.
Financial boundariesare just about explaining what is and isnt safe, he says.
Grandpa left her themoney, not them.
A gift given in resentment just isnt a gift.
In order for a yes to be a yes, no must be an option.
The family thinks that theyre entitled to a portion of the inheritance simply because theyre family.
They dont seem to realize that the OP is not ready to reconcile with them or her sister.
But family members shouldnt force the estranged person to make up.
In fact, forced reconciliation often does more harm than good.
Not everyone has the same concept of what reconciliation is, Melvin explained.
Gregory claims that one of the main reasons people remain estranged is that one party doesnt feel safe.
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