Sure, there are a fewcons, too (hands off each others clothes!
), but the bond is usually a beautiful mix of love and occasionaltension.
Sometimes, though, that bond can come with unexpected demands.
Keep reading to see how she navigates this tricky family dynamic and finally takes a stand for her future.
Sometimes, its because we genuinely want to hang out with themtheyre fun, and adorable.
Other times, its because our siblings offered something in return, maybe a little cash or a treat.
When done out of choice, helping can really bring the family closer.
But things can look very different when caregiving isnt by choice.
This is often called parentification, a term Hungarian-American psychiatrist Ivan Boszormenyi-Nagycoined.
Simply put, parentification stems from poor boundary-setting.
This can happen for many reasons, like financial stress, illness, or even emotional manipulation.
The financial strain forces them into roles beyond their years.
Studies suggest that young adults who are parentified face a unique set of challenges.
Research shows such children may develop positive traits likeempathyand responsibility.
However, this often comes at the cost of highstress, anxiety, and lost adolescent experiences.
These young caregivers frequently miss out on social time, school involvement, and normal childhood experiences.
Did you feel a sense of responsibility or resentment during that time?
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