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Its expected for tension to rise between teens and their parents every now and then.
She shared that she was inspired to tell the story online purely because she found it hilarious.
The OP also says that her father actually had no idea he had moved her important files.
But we work through it!
We both have our own demons I guess, she added with a laugh.
My grandfather is a strict autistic man raised by an even stricter autistic man.
This resulted in my grandfather being very rigid and even more specifically organized.
My fathers behavior is a result of the environment that raised him.
He was raised with even higher standards for tidiness than he raised me with, the OP explained.
Does that make him evil?
No, it doesnt.
Was he a bit of a jerk?
[It] is community based and involves basically mentoring and stuff.
I was a mentee, then I signed to be a mentor.
14 was the minimum age to be an assistant mentor.
Last work period, my boss forgot some files at the temporary work place we had set up.
I offered to keep the files until the work session, she continued.
Then the pandemic happened, so that didnt happen.
Finally, MetriomeXinthose added that her father shouldnt be crucified for this and that her petty revenge was harmless.
Yes, my father was an abusive jerk.
I havent completely forgiven him for my entire childhood yet.
But he does love me, and hes trying.
Thats enough for me to take a stab at forgive him too, she told Bored Panda.
What I did was gaslighting, but he kind of did it worse, dont you think?
He literally played along to my moving his stuff.
He found it funny too, she added.
We still laugh about it together to this day.
No damage was done.
But boys and girls dont always have the same conflicts with their mother and father.
And of course, resisting the urge to break your childs trust or invade their privacy.
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